Women :: 14 - Watching Porn And Masturbating? Is It Bad?

Apr 22, 2013

I am a 14 year old girl and i masturbate and watch porn sometimes. i get really scared sometimes as if like what if i get caught? AND is it bad that i do all of these things but sometimes i just get really wet because i've read or seen something and its like i have to do it. and sometimes i like to watch girl on girl action does that make me a lesbian because i am totally straight and do not like girls in that way. it just fascinates me a bit so is that bad?

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Erectile Dysfunction :: Masturbation And Watching Porn

i m fairly fit ...24 age..i use to masterbate alot watching porn..like 7 or 8 times...even now still i can masterbate this much times..but with my gf i cant get hard without stimulation..i had sex with her but sometimes i was not even able to maintain erection..and when i maintained i was in hurry as i was scared of losing the erection..i lasted mainly for 7 or 8 minutes...if i am alone i have strong desire to have sex so i watch porn get hard and masterbate..i can do it all day..i do get morning erections..no problem..and till now i used to live under so much stress...so may b masterbation and stress have something to do with my erectile disfunction..i really love my gf and she loves me too..she is very cooperative plz suggest me what should i do..and i can say that i m not stressed now..or maybe don't know that i am stressed.

Women :: Can't Cum While Masturbating

I'm a 15 year old female virgin and I masturbate around 3 times a day. I have the most amazing orgasms through my clitoris but I can never seem to cum or squirt so please can you tell me how to cum and squirt while masturbating with my clit.

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HIV Through Precum While Masturbating Each Other?

I have sex with another guy last time.

But i didn't have real anal sex and oral sex because he didn't have condom so i decide to just play body (suck nipple each other and he lick my neck) and help masturbate each other.

The problem is...(i think) he leaks so easily. I touch his and he has precum on my hand already so i fear that he might had some precum on his hand and i fear that he might "paste" precum indirectly on my genital. (But i'm not sure if he will has it on his hands later or not. When i touch my genital, i feel not that sticky on my genital)

Will it has a chance that i will get infected that way?

Sexual Stimulation :: How To Stop Masturbating?

I don't masturbate for maximum 2days and i end up masturbating, I really need to stop masturbating, what to do?

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Adderall - Masturbation + Porn But No Errection

I took Adderall regularly from 2011-2013 and had no ED issues, but delayed ejaculation. Since then, I've switched to a different anti-depressant medication, and when I restarted the Adderall, I had ED.

I would watch porn and masturbate for up to 30 minutes before I could get an erection. When I did, I would have some pre-ejaculate (which I never had before). Once I got an erection, because it took so much work, I didn't want to lose it! So I would put on a c*** ring and edge for up to an hour before ejaculating. Even if I only took the Adderall a few days a week, these side effects and the subsequent cycle continued daily. I've stopped the Adderall, but I still have to masturbate a flaccid penis for up to 15 minutes before it gets erect, and like before, there's eventually pre-ejeculate, I get very hard, then can masturbate normally and eventually ejaculate.

I feel like the aggressive type of masturbation I used to produce an erection when I was taking the Adderall has completely altered my penis' reaction to stimulation. Now, 15 minutes of stimulation + porn produces pre-ejaculate and then an erection. Stimulation from a partner does nothing to arouse me. I now have to go through this process to get an erection.

I've never had ED issues before, or any trouble getting an erection when masturbating or with a partner. Now, after all the aggressive masturbation caused by the Adderall-ED issues, my penis' response is so drastically different, I'm worried and don't know what to do?

Will an ED med get me back on track? Do I have to avoid masturbation and porn for an extended period of time and then my arousal cycle will return to normal? I feel like I've literally retrained my penis on how to respond to stimulation, and I need to retrain it back to normal, but not sure what to do.

Has anyone else experienced this or have suggestions?

Masturbation With Porn Causes Erectile Dysfunction?

Hi everyone, I am 26 years male and having erectile problems for last 5-6 years.I havn't sought any treatment and avoided facing the reality till now.I had been masturbating to porn for around 12-14 years and in process trained myself to ejaculating within few minutes of physical stimulation. My abdomen gets upset when I am aroused, I feel like shiting when I am aroused and I guess this is related to my GI problems. It had come to the level that I ejaculate on physical stimulation without even fully erect. A few days back I tried to have sex with a real partner after 3 years and same thing happened I ejaculated within few minutes on hand stimulation with 60% erection. This was real embarrassing. Anyway I was not even aroused to the level I get aroused when I watch porn. Nowadays it is also believed that masturbating with porn causes erectile dysfunction. In background of this thing I have had quite stressful life for last ten years. I could not feel any stress, fatigue or exhaustion even when the symptoms were quite prominent and would think that there was nothing wrong with me. I came to know about exhaustion a few months back. I was over training my mental and sexual health. Now I am exhausted both sexually and mentally so I took a break for a few months. Now I want to heal myself. I feel attracted towards curvy females but I don't think it is sexually. Please help me guys how should I go about this problem. I can't keep it like that because I know I will masturbate to porn even if the problem is not solved.

Cannabis Addiction :: Marijuana With Porn

Substance abusing and drug addicted. marijuana at the moment but adderall and Percocet in the past. Alcohol when I have no marijuana. Marijuana controls my life and I am high 24/7. Developed a porn addiction as a result of my marijuana addiction. I drive high everyday and can't function without my weed. I suffer from diagnosed depression, anxiety and undisguised bipolar disorder. I just broke up with my girlfriend because she was smothering me by trying to get me to get help but she was the best thing that ever happened to me. I don't care because I need my weed.

Masturbation And Porn Will Put My Health In A Danger?

Is masturbating and watching porn make my health in danger? i also didn't do these thing because religion matter .

Obsessive Compulsive Disorder :: Porn And Sex Obessions

I'm 20 years old female. I remember when I was 11 years old I was absolutely scared of sleeping on my own because I thought I would get possessed or a I would see a ghost. I would get paranoid when it was getting late because I knew I would have to sleep on my own even though my brothers bed was right next to mine I was still scared and I would beg my brother to sleep with me. I would constantly be scarred and I just could sleep on my own for about 2 or 3 years where my obsession just ended. This obsession was triggered when watching a scary movie I never knew it was OCD I'm still not sure if that's the case?

But after that I was scared of growing taller I don't know why I just didn't wanna be tall I would measure myself everyday and write letters to God and begged him that I wouldn't grow taller. This obsession lasted about a year or two.

When I was 17 I had a spot on my forehead i became depressed for some reason I would look at people's faces n compare them to mine I would google celebrities that have spots to make myself feel better I wouldn't let anyone touch my face for about a year or two even after the spot was gone.

A couple of months later for some reason I don't know if it was stress or I didn't have enough vitamins in me I started loosing hair it wasn't really bad but I got obsessed about my hair I wouldn't constantly check my hair thickness, I kept pulling them out to see how much hair has fallen out I would literally count them, I would ask my friends if this was normal or if they ever had a hair loss. Then my friends hair started falling out due to stress and I felt better I stopped obsessing about my hair they completely stopped falling out. I would still check and check and google I even started saving money up to get a hair transplant. Then my friends hair went back to normal and I started obsessing again constantly checking if my hair wa stalking out constantly pulling them out crying and just going crazy. I then had an obsession about my looks I kept comparing my hair my face to celebrities and if I saw a girl that's prettier than me I would get depressed I even hit myself for not being as pretty, j started doing exercises for my face I promised myself I would get a surgery done when I save up. I started wearing a lot of make up and would never show my face without it. I even had dreams where I felt weird because I had no make up on in public. At that time j had a boyfriend I was really obsessed about guys n the only reason I wanted to be pretty was because I wanted guys to like me and want me. I never figured out that I had OCD I have always had anxiety because j would I get really stress out when talking to strangers or even people in my class. Anyway one day I get really high smoking weed and I had a weird thought that popped into my head which was ( why am I here ) i started obsessing about my existence I was scared that I have lose my memory I would I wake up every single damn day feeling the same way with the same thoughts in my head, I kept questioning if I'm really alive or dead or if I'm in a comma and this is just a dream or my imagination. I was scared that I have lost my identity I just felt awful I had depression I just didn't wanna be alive anymore I kept obsessing n obsessing I kept asking for reassurance j kept googling always on my phone looking for answers I thought I was crazy every time I Heard people saying crazy or mental I would spike and get anxiety attacks I would get the every single morning for the past few months. I was obsessing about my hair and me being crazy at the same time I just didn't feel the same at all I couldn't feel emotions towards my family. The only emotions j could feel was towards my boyfriend I loved him with all of my heart he was my everything. After 6/7 months or maybe 8 I was doing really well I kept fearing that I was loosing my memory but I wasn't too bothered I just thought it's the thoughts that are making me feel crazy so I just ignored them as I was rok tired to fight them and analyse them. While I was going through that obsession I was at home all the time I couldn't think straight and some one mention it would be a good idea if I took my kind of it while watching porn so I did. I was sexually active at a young age. anyway I started off with straight porn then I moved onto different types of porn weird n disgusting but after I got bored of normal porn j would move on to weird things. My sex drive was really high for some reason I was constantly thinking about sex I would have sex with my boyfriend about 4/5 times a day but not everyday. I then started watching lesbian porn I don't know why I just did straight porn didn't work on my anymore I watched that and some other disgusting thing that I'm too smashed me to talk about. I was watching porn up to 5 times a day sometimes, and every night before I went to sleep. I kind of got over my obsession but then my brain was looking for something else to obsess about, when I was going through my obsession I slept with another guy I just didn't know how to cope with my brain I though if I do it maybe my obsession will just vanish and so I could take my mind of it. It worked after I realised what I have done i felt horrible I went back to my boyfriend and j couldn't stop obsessing about the fact what I have done it just wouldn't leave my mind it was there 24/7 I would Keep checking my facebook before my boyfriend woke up. Just incase that guy msged me I kind of got over it because I thought my boyfriend wasn't even there for me while I was having such a horrible time. But then my brain kept looking for something else to obsess about then I started obsessing about the fact that I have slept with more than 19 guys n I never told my boyfriend I just kept obsessing and even though I didn't wanna thing about it it was always in my head it was so annoying I was literally going crazy couldn't sleep after a few weeks I pushed the thiughts aside and j literally forgot how many people I slept with. I was still watching a lot of porn at the time, but I felt like my sex drive wasn't as strong as it was before? I then started imagining things in my head while having sex with my boyfriend they were sort if disturbing but they made me climax.... I had fantasies that I was having sex with his friend instead of my boyfriend. I would have the same fantasy before going to sleep and had dreams about that person, I still loved my boyfriend more than any nothing. But I didn't know what was going on with my sex drive.

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Premature Ejaculation - Porn Addict And Masturbation Since Teenage

20 years old. I am still a virgin and unfortunately I have been a porn addicted my entire teenage year and masturbating for many times. I am beginning to have a relationship but I am afraid that I am suffering from PE. So many times that I get aroused when watching porn my fluids keeps coming out then I can't help it when I feel the urges to masturbate . It takes only a full minute or so after being completely aroused. I am terrified of this problem and I hope I don't have it. I am currently cutting back on all porn sites. But How can I be 100% sure that I suffer from PE and If I am, How can I treat this problem? please guide me and I hope.

One thing to mention is that when long time passes without porn or masturbation I can feel my urges stronger and I erectile easily so is this an indication that I don't have PE or that It will take small time just to recover from this issue because I fear that I will ejaculate soon after entering my girlfriend. Or It will be normal to ejaculate easily the first few times only then I will adjust to the feeling?

Erectile Dysfunction :: Rarely Get An Erection When I Watch Porn

Hey guys, im 23 years old, and i realized that i dont have the morning woods anymore, or rarely get an erection, when i watch porn, its like not turning me on, but i can get an erection when i masturbate, but i lose it in 20 seconds if i stop, since 10 days now...i work out, lift heavy weights, run all the time, trying to eat what i should, but im so worried now, this is the first time happening, what should i do ?

Penis :: Impotence Caused By Excessive Masturbation And Porn

im 23 years Old ,,, i have been masturbating from last 8 years ... but from last 3 years i masturbated daily once or more times but not more than 4 times,.... most of the times i masturbated while watching porn.... ,,,,

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Porn Induced Masturbation And Erectile Dysfunction? Failure In Real Life

I started out watching porn and masturbating when I was 10 or 11 years old. I didn't have a girlfriend until I was 15. The first time we tried to have sex I couldn't get an erection sufficient enough for penetration. The times after that we tried to have sex and I got a weak erection, but managed to penetrate her. I got pretty hard when I was inside but it quickly goes away when I'm not inside her. I realize what the porn and masturbation has done to me all these years so I'm unable to perform in real life situations. After reading many people in similar situations as me, I've decided to give up porn/masturbation forever to be able to perform in real situations with real girls. Summer is coming up when I will be able to go to my girlfriend's house in a little less than two months. I've installed porn blockers and stopped masturbating since about four or five days ago. I feel absolutely no urge to watch porn or masturabte. Do you think I will be healed? I hate living like this and want this to be over with. If you have any questions, just ask.

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Female viagra or medicines for sexual dysfunction in women such as low sex drive

Women :: Bleeding After Sex

Yesterday I tried anal for the first time with my partner and he had already entered my vagina before trying my bum, it didn't really hurt but after a bit he stopped and said I was bleeding.

I went to the toilet and wiped myself and there was some blood from bum on the paper. It doesn't hurt or anything and it isn't continuously bleeding, there's just been a few spots, is this normal after anal for the first time or should I be worried?

The only time there has been blood since is when I've been for a bowel movement, which I expected as obviously each time this aggravates the slight tear.

Why Women Think Circumcision Is Better?

I estimate most of women do not care if a man is circumcised or not. After all, what do they fall in love with... the man or his penis? In my opinion women who claim that circumcision is better, who seem to prefer circumcision are insecure about their femininity and think that circ is a way of leveling the playing field.

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Women :: No Sex Drive And Scared Of Sex

Alright ladies i need some advice. me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years. and in the beginning our sex life was AMAZING... i mean hes a god. i ended up being pregnant but due to unfortunate circumstances i had to have an abortion. Ever since then we have not had sex..... that was nearly 2 years ago... i know. i have tried but it hurts. (my mans packing) i also start uncontrollably shaking and crying. i also have no sex drive! i mean none. and before i was well... always ready.we do all the other stuff except i cant even let his finger in me and even then he has to kinda talk me into doing the stuff we do do. i know it has something to do with the abortion. but i really would appreciate some advice. i know alot of people say counseling. but there is along waiting list to get in. maybe just some advice or if someones been through something similar.

Do All Women Orgasm Differently?

I am not very sexually experienced at all. I've had two partners, my first was 5 years ago and he was my boyfriend on and off for 5 years. I have a new boyfriend now, it's weird being with someone else now but I love him to death we've been together 7 months.

I need some advice please! Guys seem so simple, they orgasm, boom they're done. Me? I don't know when I do, my previous boyfriend was always like jeez you're finishing again (I guess my female stuff would go everywhere kind of like a guy) it would happen a few times. And I'd be confused if I was done or not. But most of the time my whole body would tingle after we stopped having sex, it would feel like all my skin fell asleep and woke up and tingled lol especially in my hands and face and lips, like everything was just super weird and tingly and I'd have weird vision but feel very relaxed and my sex drive would instantly go away for about a week or a few days. Me and my first sexual partner would have sex probably a few times a week for all those years.

Same with my new relationship, but my boyfriend is very confused as I am too! His main goal is to get me to orgasm once. And he feels like crap that he can't get me to. But last time we did it I was tingly like that and my sex drive instantly went away. When a lot of the other times before I'd still not be finished but he would. We only have had sex a couple dozen times out of the like 7 months we've been together..I am getting FINALLY a lot more comfortable being intimate with him. I never thought I could date again after my long term relationship ended but I guess I am human and can finally adapt to someone new! It took me 7 months to even...touch him down there

Is that somewhat of an orgasm though? Do all women orgasm differently? I am very confused! Is the whole body tingle part of it? Meh it sort of feels like when your foot falls asleep and wakes up but it doesn't have that "ouch" feeling just that tingle all over my body for about 10 mins after.

Women :: Bleeding Instead Of Cum With Dildo

I have been masterbating for years with a dildo and I have never had so much blood come out of my vagina. I had been playing with myself and I felt what seemed like a lot of cum but instead a whole bunch of blood came out of me. There was no clear or white liquid to be found at all. I have cramps always as well, not big ones but just enough to feel it. What could be this issue?