Sexual Health :: Delayed Or No Ejaculation (53 Years)
Me 53 year old very healthy. No physical problems, all tests perfect, excellent shape with good testosterone count. Was married for 22 years. Divorced for 2 years.
Have delayed ejaculation and need advice and help if you have experience here.
During my 22-year marriage I never had enough sex. I had to masturbate once or twice a week to relieve myself. However, I did not have any issues with getting erect or with ejaculating
Towards the end I did notice that it used to take longer to ejaculate and I was never a heavy porn watcher. In addition, I can't remember ever being able to *** from oral sex or a hand job. Most of the time I would enjoy it but needed penetration to ejaculate.
My divorce was terrible psychologically. I did request the divorce but my ex-wife is just mean and vindictive and the process has been downright hell.
Since separation I started to date women. I noticed that many times, in fact, most times I could not ejaculate. No matter how long we made love, I could not ejaculate. This may seem wonderful as I can go for almost as long as humanly possible, but it is like a curse as you never get the pleasure of *******.
I actually went through a period (post-separation) where I had difficulty getting erect and keeping an erection but that is no longer an issue anymore. I have a wonderful girlfriend for 1 year. We have sex all the time and any time I want. She treats me well and makes me feel like a man.
I am relatively convinced this is a mental thing and I just don't know what steps to take alone and with my partner to ease back into ejaculating. It is getting easier during penetration sex, but it seems we get focused on if I *** or don't It is really exhausting and a bummer and frustrating. I can always ejaculate from masturbating and I don't need to squeeze really hard, watch crazy porn.. I am pretty convinced it is somehow in my head I am not letting go, and don't know the path to do this.
Another example is that I have shy urination. What is this? Well if there are other people in the room at a public toilet for example, as hard as I may have to urinate, it won't come out. How did I cure this? I simply convince myself that I am in the room alone when I am in the public bathroom. If my subconscious is convinced enough it works! I am able to pee. So in that instance it is 100% in my mind. I am amazed at how this works pretty much all the time, I simply act that there is no one in the room and I can pee.
I am thinking that I need something like this in order to ejaculate during intercourse or oral sex or with a hand job. My girlfriend is there to help with anything that can be practiced with a couple.
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Gender: Male
Medications: Zoloft (Sertraline) and Trazodone
Diagnosed Illnesses: Anxiety, Asperger's Syndrome, Depression, OCD, Migraines
Age: teen
When I first started experimenting with sex (masturbation), which was summer last year, it worked out fine for the first couple of times. Then, I would start getting terrible headaches at the base of my skull, near my neck, right before, during, or after ejaculation. They would usually go away after about 2-3 hours. One time I had actually passed out afterwards, and when I woke up, the headache was faint, but still present. They went away after about 4 times, but they came back for the first time tonight. The headaches are more intense than any other migraines I've had, and believe me, I've had doozies. Anyway, I have been doing research on these tonight (and when it first happened, I researched it but thought nothing of it) and I have been getting mixed answers. I think I have answered all of the questions that the replies to other forums have asked. I don't know if this matters, but my head was laid back and I was standing during the orgasm/headache. I have a bad habit of masturbating about 4-5 times a week, which I have been trying my best at stopping, or at least lowering it to once a week. Another thing I am particularly concerned about is approaching my parents with this information. I am young, so I cannot make a doctor's appointment by myself. I am very stressed about telling her, even though she knows I masturbate because she caught me one time , but she reacted calmly. Any information would benefit me a lot, but please don't post things like I have been reading like "Masturbation is a sin" because I know this.
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I have an unusual smell down there. I am a woman who is a virgin, but my boyfriend and I have tried fingering until we could get used to the fact of touching each other. The smell is very pungent and doesn't exactly smell like pee, so I'm not sure what it is. It comes out of my vagina so I'm sure its not pee. He tells me it doesn't bother him but I'm worried it does. It bothers me so what is it?
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Suffered from OCD / sleep phobia for many years
Currently taking seroquel & occasionally zopiclone. Also in the past taken clomipramine
Here's the problem
I'm obsessing about sex. Firstly few months ago was worried about being able to perform (get hard)
Managed to get through this, did feel very down though. Now I'm obsessing about premature ejaculation, every time I have sex it's always on my mind to the point now where I can ejaculate too quick. This is causing me horrendous depression & I feel like I'm wasting my days. See I took a clomipramine tablet the other week & this cures premature ejaculation for me but I feel a failure to take it and feel like it will eventually not work. I rationally realise I'm creating the problem but have no control to the point where the problem is created.
All I'm thinking everyday every second is about arriving to soon. My partner is supportive and thinks I haven't got a problem but I feel funny down below. I can last longer by masterbating before sex but have read this is not a long term solution. I feel so anxious and sad that life seems difficult
Viagra For Premature Ejaculation And Other Conditions?
Viagra and medications like it (Levitra, Cialis) have been used safely and effectively for erectile dysfunction (ED) for nearly 20 years. In addition to their more recent use as recreational (non-prescribed) drugs, doctors and patients have tried them for other conditions, like premature ejaculation.
This post is not intended in any way to recommend recreational use of Viagra or any of the other related medications, or their use for conditions other than those for which they are approved by the FDA or other national regulatory agencies, but addresses questions to those men who have used, or are contemplating using, whether recommended by their doctor or otherwise, these medications for reasons other than erectile dysfunction.
1. For what conditions, other than ED, have you or are you using these medication?
2. What change(s), if any, did you notice in your sexual functioning?
3. Did you encounter any problems?
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I need advice as to what is causing it and how to get rid of it? I will do anything except douche because I was told it isn't healthy.
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20 years old. I am still a virgin and unfortunately I have been a porn addicted my entire teenage year and masturbating for many times. I am beginning to have a relationship but I am afraid that I am suffering from PE. So many times that I get aroused when watching porn my fluids keeps coming out then I can't help it when I feel the urges to masturbate . It takes only a full minute or so after being completely aroused. I am terrified of this problem and I hope I don't have it. I am currently cutting back on all porn sites. But How can I be 100% sure that I suffer from PE and If I am, How can I treat this problem? please guide me and I hope.
One thing to mention is that when long time passes without porn or masturbation I can feel my urges stronger and I erectile easily so is this an indication that I don't have PE or that It will take small time just to recover from this issue because I fear that I will ejaculate soon after entering my girlfriend. Or It will be normal to ejaculate easily the first few times only then I will adjust to the feeling?
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132 (241-827 ng/dl). I am a 35 yrs, slim , walk alot (5'9, 155lbs)
What can i do? The doctor would like to repeat the test again because it was done late in the afternoon.
I am freaked out to be honest, i had ED last for a few days. i am freaked out of taken an HIV test also.
Do testosterone boosters really work?
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I've been having this problem for a long time and I neglect to see a doctor about it.
During masturbation at the point of ejaculation the bottom middle part of my left and right foot start becoming extremely painful. Even when I attempted to massage it, as I pressed on it, it hurt even more. Then a few seconds after the pain just stops. Can anyone tell my why this happens and how I can fix this?
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