Penis :: Foreskin Retraction And Pleasure
My boyfriend is 22 and says that it hurts to retract his foreskin past a certain point. I have a decent amount of sexual experience, but this is my first time with someone who is uncircumcised. He's said that he hasn't really gotten anything that we've done in bed (i've tried masturbating him and giving him oral). I'm just wondering what's really going on. I've never had a problem pleasuring a guy before, so why is foreskin making it so different? I'm just lost. Can someone please help?
View 2 RepliesWomen - Sexual Dysfunction :: Can't Get Pleasure Out Of Sex
I'm 18 and my boyfriend and I have had sex many times but I can never get pleasure from it. When he enters me at first it hurts, then it stops hurting but I can feel him moving inside me, then after a minute or two I can't feel anything. When masturbating it takes me a minute and a half to orgasm twice, so that isn't the problem. I have enough sex drive to initiate the sex, but am left disappointed and sore after he withdraws. It takes him about five minutes to cum without a condom and about an hour and a half with one. We always use lubricant and have tried various positions including girl on top and doggy but nothing seems to help. I am always left wondering how far off he is and am very thankful when its over, even five minutes is too long. I make love with him because I know he enjoys it, and making him happy is the only good bit of the whole thing. From reading various forums I know I'm not alone in this, but none of the suggestions (use more lube, watch porn beforehand, make the room romantic etc) have helped.
View 2 RepliesTranquilizers :: After Psychosis Lack Of Pleasure And Emotionless
well at the end of December 2011, i entered a psychosis that came from my cannabis use. before the psychosis i wasn't the brightest kid or even the most social or happiest, but i knew how to keep myself busy.
So anyway, i was taken into a mental ward for my psychosis and i remained there for 11 weeks. during thins time i was put on the medication risperdal and oxazepam. my psychosis lasted for about 2 months and after i was just left with emptiness. needless to say this was the start of my emotions going blank. in this type of place there a quite an amount of people and it just seems to be polite to talk to one another. However i never felt the need to converse and i was emotionless. i could never find the right words to respond to someone and even now i'm having trouble finding words to type.
after the almost three months in the ward, i was finally released home. shortly after i began see a psychiatrist for medication and status checkups. he took me off oxazepam but kept me on risperdal he informed me that i would have to take the medication for about two years.
anyway, my real reason for being here is i wanted to know if my emotions will ever return after i am taken off the medication. i did some research and some say the emptiness stems from negative symptoms of psychosis, and some say its the effect of the medication. Furthermore i read that some who were taken off the risperdal have yet to return to how they once were. this is very frustrating. I just feel a lack of pleasure and even things that are supposed to bring pleasure, such as smoking cigarettes, are currently doing nothing for me. i don't even get lightheaded from smoking them anymore. i also have no sexual cravings or do i get pleasure from sexual intercourse anymore. i would also like to know how many others are in a similar situation.
Sexual Health :: No Pleasure From Sex Or Clitoral Stimulation
Just wanted to get as many details in so hopefully someone can help me! I'm 18 and I've been having sex for two years now and still don't enjoy it. Its very uncomfortable and can be extremely painful sometimes. Before having sex I used to enjoy being fingered but even that just isn't pleasurable anymore. I've never really had a guy try oral sex on me so i cant really say whether i enjoy that. I realise that some women don't enjoy sex but most women in this situation do enjoy clitoral stimulation. There has been two occasions when this has been the case for me and it was amazing but both times we had to stop as we weren't exactly in the most private situations and i was getting a little loud. Other than these two times, which were both with different men who i had hardly any emotional connections to clitoral stimulation just feels like being touched anywhere else on my body. I've never been able to orgasm, not even with masturbation. I also don't have any trouble getting wet before sex. I'm with a really great guy at the moment who really wants to help, but i just don't know what to do. Is there anything we can do? is this going to be permanent?
View 2 RepliesOlanzapine :: Bad Feelings While Quitting
I recieved super bad feelings when i got under 100% dose of olanzapine and couldn't sleep and up-ed my dose to 10mg (from around 6mg i guess). the feelings came when i was falling asleep.
it came like 3 times, like 70% of my cells were being pressured together.... (i'm describing the super bad feelings) it scared me A LOT when it happened and i am very scared to up my dose again because i think then these super bad feelings might come again...
they came for like 7 seconds these 3 times combined, these 3 times happened in like 1 minute. it would not surprise me if these super bad feelings were Life-threatening but i told my psychiatrist about it and he didn't know what it was but said that it was not Life-threatening.
so now i am trying to quit very slowly so i never have to up my dose again. lowering my dose by 0,625 mg each time.
i was hoping that someone here knows what these super bad feelings were and could shed some light on it. it would help me ALOT if i knew that these super bad feelings were not dangerous.
i'm not 100% certain that these feelings were caused by me uping my Olanzapine dose alot but i think so.
Fluoxetine :: Fear Of Surroundings And Strange Feelings
Hi - on fourth day of flu. Doctor prescribed them after telling him of my increasing inability to cope with just about everything. I am a hairy arsed truck driver and a few weeks ago started to have to think about things that would normally have been second nature - an example is when approaching a set of traffic lights I can see that a red light is showing but I have to think to myself 'does that mean stop or go'?. So far nothing untoward has happened thankfully - so I made the appointment with the Doctor before anything did. He promptly signed me off for two weeks!!
I had a similar problem eight years ago, a few months after a heart attack and 9/11. I was absolutely terrified of everything. I couldn't even go near a McDonald for fear of them being a terrorist target (no great loss there then!!).
Then as now I would start crying at the drop of a hat - though this time I have managed to hide it from the family. At work I find myself in a layby,head in hands and sobbing like a baby and wondering if it's all worth it.
I don't really feel suicidal - I'm too scared to try anything in case it goes wrong and I end up a cabbage !!. My wife is an absolute gem in these times as she is under a similar pressure to me but copes with it far better than me. Perhaps it's the 'man the provider' scenario that affects me as I feel I should be able to provide for my family better than I do. The wife had a few weeks 'between jobs' but had agency work here and there so we got a bit behind with things like the rent and HP payments on the car etc. I do all the overtime that I legally can (being an HGV driver means you can only work so many hours by law). She has a permanent full time job again now thankfully so I know things will slowly improve over time but I still can't get rid of the feeling that I have let the family down and that we wouldn't have been put in this situation if I had done something - but what?.
As you can tell my problems are 90% financial. Theory says that now we have more money coming in again that things will improve. That's what I keep telling myself anyway. Even though I am signed off I am still worrying about work - is somebody doing my work properly - are they looking after my truck? etc.
As for the 'flu (20's) I have only been on it for a short time as you know but yesterday morning (3rd day) was awful - I felt as though I had swallowed some razor blades that were churning away in my guts cement mixer fashion. That seems to have subsided now - but now my poo smells!!. Oh well - we cant have everything. The only time I seem to be 'at ease' i.e. stress free is when I take the dogs for a walk. I like to go where there is nobody around - away from it all - and preferably not see another soul. But I have always been a bit solitary - I've always preferred my own company - perhaps that is part of the problem. When I used to do long distance work I may not have spoken to anyone for two or three days - bliss!!. My wife doesn't understand this as she is very much a 'people person'. Even now, I work alone and if I run into somebody (not literally) I start to feel tense just in case they say 'good morning'. I am willing them not to say anything because I feel that if they do they are invading my space. If they do say something I am always polite and respond of course as that's the way I've been brought up but inside I am saying 'You bastard - why did you have to talk to me - leave me alone and bugger off'.
Depression :: Doxycycline - Anxiou Feelings, Low Mood
has anyone had any bad side effects while taking Doxy, ie anxious feelings, low mood. Do these side effects disappear when the course is finished?
View 1 RepliesViral Infections :: Severe Cough With Feelings Want To Vomit
I've been suffering this type of cough for a month. I've got doctor medication, but seemed like not very helpful. When I cough after eating, I always feel like want to vomit. That feels totally horrible. The first week when I started to show a cough symptoms, I don't mind it that much as I think it's a seasonal flu. But after a while, it doesn't seem to get away. Is there any clue of what might had invade my body, maybe some kind of virus, or even parasit? Also, I had a bronchitis when I was 17. I am 20 now.
View 1 RepliesSevere Anxiety And Depression - Tight Feelings In My Throat
I am currently severely anxious about everything even things that haven't happened or may never happen i am suffering from really tight feelings in my throat like around my voice box is this caused by the anxiety? I can't help thinking i may have cancer i worry constantly it's driving me crazy.
View 2 RepliesNervous System :: Weird Feelings And Negative Thoughts
It's been a rough two months. It started with possibly anxiety and then panic attacks. Fast heart rate, tingling feeling in hands, tight chest and as time goes by. Others symptoms. I was diagnosed with hyperthyroid. I been on medication for a month already but still been feeling weird. I have good and bad days. Like yesterday, I was fine for the most part. Felt normal, then the feeling of being nauseous and thought of something is wrong with me came on. Lasted for about 40mins till I got home. This morning same thing, just a weird feeling. Discomfort in the chest area. Nauseous and the feeling something is wrong with me. I had an MRI of the heart, CAT scan of the brain and everything seemed fine. I do have to get an ultrasound for my thyroids and ct scan of the brain again to rule out MS. Other symptoms throughout the day (it varies) shooting pain in my right hand. Headache, dry mouth, chest discomfort, tired, anxious. Please, can someone help? I want to be my normal self again.
View 1 RepliesBirth Control :: Wierd Feelings After Tubal Ligation
After having a tubal and cut off my bc pills my body is mad at me. Migraines, horrible shoulder/chest pain, no taste buds on my tongue, tired and sore,plus bleeding. I just want more information and can't find any...
View 1 RepliesStrange Feelings After Falling Asleep - Possessed? Or Hallucination?
I am a 14 year old male and for the past 1-2 weeks, i have been experiencing strange feelings suddenly after falling asleep. Most of the time (In regards to religion) devilish. It started one night when I suddenly go to sleep and feel a rush go up my body, then a tap on my left knee. I disregarded it thinking i was just about to have a nightmare. About 5 minutes after that, i go to sleep again and feel another sudden rush up my body and a tap on my right bicep. This time i heard a slurred voice (I cannot recall what it said but i do believe there was laughing.) I finally got sleep and told my mom the next morning. These things had not happened again until 4-5 days later when I went to sleep and i get a sudden rush up my body but instead of a tap, I have no control over my body. After 30 seconds of not being able to move myself (Note, this was not sleep paralysis because I gained control over my body.) I regain control but then I feel another sudden rush through my body and a tap on my left leg again with another slurred voice. I want to know what is going on with me, am I being possessed? Or am I just hallucinating? I want to know your guys's thoughts and what I should do.
View 1 RepliesHypertension - Bisoprolol :: Awful Feelings Of Dread Through My Body
On Bisoprolol for a few weeks now and am getting awful feelings of dread throughout my body. Although it's a small dose 1.25mg it is horrendous. Anyone else having similar issues?
View 34 RepliesCannabis Addiction :: Weird Feelings For Three Days After Smoking Weed
i smoked some weed with my friends. this my second time, but this time when i got home i suddenly felt so weird. now i feel like everything is fake, im body sometimes goes num. i had a panic attack. i went to the hospital but didn't tell them that i smoked so the doctors didn't do nothing. i swear this is the last time ill ever smoke please somebody give some advice. im only 14 i want to live life to the fullest.
Intercourse :: It Hurts After Sex
I am 15 years old and i just had sex with my boyfriend and it hurts really bad and he's at the age of 19 could anybody tell me whats wrong i dont want to confront to my mom she'll kill me
View 6 RepliesIntercourse :: It Hurts To Have Sex
I recently tried having sex for the first time with my boyfriend and it hurt a lot and he couldn't get it in. I also started bleeding and I think he may have torn something that wasn't my hymen while trying to get it in. We tried a couple of times after that and although I didn't bleed it still hurt just as much, it also felt like I really had to pee. If it's not the pain that makes me stop him it's the feeling that I need to pee. It doesn't feel like this when he fingers me, just when we try to have sex. We do a lot of foreplay and I really want to have sex but it just hurts too much. Is there anything I can do to make it easier?
View 4 RepliesBleeding While Having Intercourse
I need an answer as to why i've been bleeding during intercourse.... First time i bled was on Valentine's day me and my bf was having intercouse and i noticed that there was dark red blood on the bed and we had intercourse yesterday on our anniversary and i started to bleed agin but it was not as dark as it was the first time
Me and my bf are concerned about it, why would i be bleeding while having intercourse?
Am I Pregnant? :: Not A Proper Intercourse
I was with my boyfriend last week and somehow we went too far. He inserted his penis for a few seconds and then took it out. This was my first time and after a day i started experiencing cramps and pain in my lower abdomen. My menstruation dates were due on the 25th but my cramps started on the 19th and intercourse happened on the 18th of this month. Thought it was not a proper intercourse because he did not insert it completely and he did not even ejaculate inside me. He also did not have any pre-ejaculation fluid on his penis at the time of insertion. However my menstruation started on the 22nd of this month. After a few hours I ate omelette and after that I started feeling very week and i vomited. After a few hours I again vomited and this time I was not even able to stand. Also I started experiencing severe pain in my stomach along with my lower abdomen. The bleeding is not too much whereas normally I bleed quiet a lot. I am really confused. Can I be pregnant? Please guide me through this. Thanks!
View 3 RepliesIntercourse :: Bleeding After First Time
I had sex wid my fiance. It was mine first time, I did not bleed while having sex. But later in the evening I started bleeding, early morning it was stopped then for the whole day I didn't bleed, the next day morning when I went to lavatory i again got bleeding.
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