STDs :: Protected Sex, But Unprotected Oral - Herpes Or Syphilis
I am straight male in my 30's.
Today I messed up and had sex with a sex worker. The sex was 'protected' at all times - we used a condom. HOWEVER, she sucked and licked my testicles and the very base of my shaft. Sorry to get into the details, but perhaps this is important - we had short vaginal and somewhat rough anal sex. No artificial lubricant was used. I didn't inspect the condom in details afterwards, but it seemed OK.
My last shave 'down there' was 2 days ago. Now I notice that my skin is still somewhat irritated (red bumps), although I don't see any obvious cuts. There is the possibility of micro cuts, though...
Needless to say, now when the sane judgment came back to me, I have a few questions/concerns:
1. What is the major STDs I should be worried about now? It is my estimate that it is Syphilis. I am not really worried about HIV (condom didn't break) or Herpes (it is now kind of common). Genital warts - slim chance, there is a 100 strains and only a few cause the warts.
2. Assuming I have caught Syphilis, am I immediately contagious to others, or first I have to reach 1st or 2nd phase of the disease?
3. Is Syphilis contracted when it penetrates into the bloodstream (i.e. there has to be a CUT), or as soon as skin (any skin) touches the lesion. If there is no lesion whatsoever, how contagious is it still?
STDs :: Unprotected Oral - Itchy Penis
One night while my wife was at a girls night out i was drinking and got a bit drunk. I went to get more beer walking 3 blocks away. On my way a woman who looks like she was mid 30s was standing in the corner and long story short told me if i got her 2 beers she would make it my while. I went and got it and walked back to her with some beers for me. This is where i regret so much what happened. She took me by a tree and told me to take out my member and she proceeded to service me. It lasted maybe 30 seconds and was rough i then came and ran home scared. I went upstairs and peed and washed my member and put antibacterial gel and noticed a burn like a small cut on the bottom of the shaft. That was 8.days ago. That night i woke with a pain of guilt in my upper back and my urethra had a slight sting. The sting has lasted these 8 days and there was no itching. No discharge and no pain when peeing. On day 4 i had normal sex with my wife and had no pain with cumming. On day 7 my wife and i sexex 3 times and in between she also gave me a hand job there was some dry sex and this day my urethra had itched a little bit. That night my penis started itching. Today day 8 i have no discharge no pain peeing but my penis has many super tiny bumps and the skin is red and irritated it itches alot and now the tip of my penis where i pee is sensitive. It doesn't burn when i pee no discharge but i have alot of little tiny bumps that are hard to see and my penis is very itchy and sore and the urethra tip is sensitive. What could this be? I need to see the doctor i imagine? My wife says she doesn't feel any pains or stings i regret this so much i can't believe i did this i love my wife thank you for your help.i have put anti fungal creme and i took a uti test which came negative for leuk and the other one and the antifungal didn't work for a couple hours but i THINK its working now im not sure but i an itchy the bumps are tiny and firm and don't have center or fluid filled i will see how they look tomorrow
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I received from a female unprotected oral sex last week ago Wednesday (today is friday). Went in for an STD test on Monday. All tests came back negative. That said, while I would not call urination painful, I would say i have a slight burning sensation at the tip of the penis, no discharge or any other symptoms. Though always looking for discharge because "i believe" i feel it. I admit, this all might be in my head...being that my tests were negative should I not be worried or do I have NGU? I have a rx for doxy and considering taking it just a precaution but cant tell if I am just being a hypochondriac.
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A day after i received oral sex from a friend I began noticing a tingling sensation in my penis. It was a brief encounter where i stopped half way through. The tingling has been going on for two days now, could this be an std? She did brush and gargle with mouth wash before performing.
I have not seen a discharge from my penis nor pain when i urinate. But tonight i did notice a yellowish stain in my underwear that did not look like urine.
STDs :: Unprotected Oral - Penis Has Blotchy Discoloration
I recently had unprotected oral sex to completion with a provider.
Today, the tip of my penis has blotchy discoloration like bruises all over the head. It doesn't hurt, I'm just extra sensitive ( maybe in my mind)
Very worried I might have contracted something?
Urination seems normal. There was no sex, just oral from a woman.
STDs :: Unprotected Oral - Slight Burning At The Tip Of My Penis
2 weeks ago I had unprotected oral with a high risk individual. Also fingered her with a superficial cut (from my understanding is zero risk)
2 days later I had slight burning at the tip of my penis and pain with ejaculation. Went to planned parenthood, they tested me and gave me 1g azithromycin and ceftriaxone injection. The symptoms went away. Weird thing is they said they would call me if the tests came back positive so sex partners could get treated as well, and I haven't got a call back....
Anyways, I started feeling nausea a few days after the medication, could be from not drinking water though (I was in vegas) the nausea is gone now.
My main concern now is my right testicle it pretty tender and I can feel a lymph node on the same side in my groin area (sign of infection?) But shouldn't the antibiotics have killed any infections?
I have read over and over dr. Handsfield and dr. Hook both say very low to zero risk for hiv, and other stds for that matter...
Herpes :: Pinching Pain At Tip Of Penis (massage And Oral Sex)
About 9 weeks ago I went to a massage parlour and received oral sex.
Maybe about 1 minute without a condom. She then put the condom on and started. I showered and went home. 2 days later I woke up to painful pinching Feelings in my penis. The head of my penis looked bright red and kind of flakey. No visible sores. I had the usual std tests about a week later. All negative. The pinching lasted for about 5-6 weeks. I went for another round of std tests. All negative. My doctor gave me an anti fungal creams but it just seemed to irritate it..I ended up taking fluconazole antifungal pill. Maybe it helped? I've been going through extreme anxiety since this encounter.
I took the igg herpes blood test at 8 weeks. Negative. Going to my doctor tomorrow to see the numbers.
Genital Herpes Simplex :: Tingling And Constant Itching, Ball Ache, Sore Penis
My partner has been diagnosed with HSV2 in the genitals. He has never had an external break out with sores but ever since he has been diagnosed 7 weeks ago he has constant itching around is anus and all down the insides of the inner legs (especially where the underwear line is), ball aches (just one ball at a time), tingling pains like shards of glass under his skin all throughout his anus, balls, penis and inner thighs. Some days are better than others and he can get thru the day. Other days he can't even bear to sit or walk. Its gotten so bad now he cant even touch his penis! some days the inside of his penis burns and it feels like there is still urin left inside. other days his ball aches so bad that a stabbing pain goes up into his stomach, it is debilitating he cant even concentrate at work. a minute can't pass without something hurting.
He has tried a full course of valtrex for 10 days and nothing helped. he tried no meds and it seemed to get a bit worse. he tried a double dose of valtrex for a week and no change.
He is so depressed and worried about it because nothing changes and he hurts badly every day. he has changed as a person and i am reaching out for any leads or help. I have suggested to him to be in valtrex for a much longer term period but he doesn't think it will help as he felt nothing before when he was on a double dose...
Herpes :: Asymptomatic Gentintal Herpes Transmission To Mouth By Oral Sex?
Recently found out that I have genital herpes. It's scaring me because I'm a lesbian and I feel like I will never be able to have sex again. I have a couple of questions.
I'm in a relationship with a woman, would she contract herpes by giving me oral sex when I don't have an "outbreak"? Can she contract the virus orally?
What's are the risks and probabilities?
Can you have herpes 1 in your genitals or is it only herpes 2 in your genitals. What does this really mean?
HIV Risk :: Unprotected Oral Sex With A CSW
I had unprotected oral sex with a CSW . what are my risks ?Do i need to test?
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what are the chances to contract Hiv with unprotected Oral sex. I'm the male receiver of the oral.
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I lived in indonesia.. last week i was exposed to one kiss from the commercial massage lady to my head of penis. is it considered oral sex? however, two days later, i am shocked there is redness in my head of penis, went to my GP and dermatologists, they said is ok . dermatologists take sample and Gp said it is only because of maybe her nail. I was so scared because if it is because her nail , then it is possible at the time my penis is bleeding.How much is my risk from her one kiss to my penis while it is bleeding? Thank you so much for the answer. i feel like killing myself as i have no one to talk to
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Recently hit a massive down point in my relationship, ended up receiving unprotected oral sex from an escort with protected sex after.
Since then I have been experiencing a feeling of needing to urinate and once I have been to the toilet, it feels like there is still some left.
No discharge or burning, just a slight irritation and sometimes a drop of urine after.
I am awaiting tests back and have got a injection/antibiotic booked tomorrow in the meantime.
Is it likely my anxiety is building this up or how likely is it that I have anything other than NGU?
I am so scared that it is anything serious as I'm now back with my partner and not sure what I would say or do?
STDs :: Unprotected Oral - Syphilis ?
I'm a 23 year old male I've received unprotected oral 6 times total within the span of a year or less and after the 5th time my groin lymph nodes swelled up and my penis turned a weird shape for a day or 2 like it was swollen just before it makes the tip of my penis then on the bottom left hand corner of my bottom lip this bump or lump occurred swelled up for a about 30 min or so then it went away then another one came back about a month after. and I started to get what looked like acne on both of my inner thighs. Then the new year hit 2016 another lump in my lip occurred but this time on my top lip. The person I was with claims they are clean and gets tested regularly and has no symptoms. Does anyone know what this is or what it might be I've never been tested and don't have health insurance what do I do I'm freaking out constantly googling symptoms my guess is it's syphilis
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I'm female. I have a unprotected oral sex with a guy that I first met. I received and gave oral sex to him, but no ejaculation and I only licked his balls. I didn't see any cold sores around his areas. Do I need to have STDs test? If so, which tests I should take?
View 6 RepliesSTDs :: Given Unprotected Oral To Woman
About a week ago I had sex with a female sex worker in Hong Kong (I'm a man).
I had a condom on when she gave me oral, and a different one on when we had normal intercourse. We didn't kiss lip to lip, though I did kiss her skin and nipples. I *did* give her unprotected oral, and stuck my tongue inside some.
This was about a week ago. I've been a bit worried ever since then...I've only had one other partner until this encounter, I'm not normally one to take risks. How concerned should I be?
I gather that the biggest risks would be syphilis, gonorrhea, or chlamydia from the unprotected oral sex, and that HIV transmission would be extremely unlikely even if she were to be infected?
If I get tested, how long should I wait before going, and are there any possible symptoms that I should be on the lookout for? How long would any of those symptoms take to develop? And would it be possible to infect my partner with (normal lip to lip) kissing or vaginal intercourse?
HIV :: Protected Sex, Unprotected Oral - Seroconversion
I know this has been asked in some form or another over the various forums, but I just had to ask myself and share my experiences and symptoms that have been raising red flags with me recently. Looking for expert analysis/advice/opinions.....
8/10 - Had protected sex with sex worker, condom stayed intact.
Gave unprotected cunnilingus to her for 5-10 min, no bleeding or sores on vagina nor on or in my mouth.
Kept my tongue around the clitoris and very entrance of vaginal opening but less than 1/4 inch inside.
She was sort of a squirter and climaxed, i accidentally swallowed a gulp of vaginal juices.
8/13 - 3 days later got a sever sore throat, lost voice, no noticeable fevers or weakness. (red flag)
8/15 - Urgent care said not strep or bacterial, probably viral, gave antiseptic gargle and said to ride it through.
8/16 - hip joints get soar, noticing mild weakness and fever-like sensation but no fever (yellow flag)
8/22 - Throat almost normal, got voice back. Saw same sex worker again but this time she had several little round bandages on her arms, neck, and back. (red flag) She said she broke out because of something she ate but i was skeptical. Had protected sex and unprotected oral for 1 minute, no swallowing of juices this time. ( I know, i'm a horny idiot)
8/24 - Had severe herpes outbreak on penis. (Had herpes 20 years, however recently with meds and vitamins the outbreaks are mild, usually one or two blisters. This time was a full blown cluster, like my immune system was busy fighting something) (red flag)
8/27 - Went to free AIDS clinic. Took finger prick HIV test, came Negative but has been only 17 days since suspected risk. Clinic said possibly HIV infection might have happened and to definitely come back every month for 5 months to test.
8/28 - Mysterious scratch on my right arm just below my shoulder, didn't injure it at all. Where'd it come from? (yellow flag)
8/29 - Scratch turned into purple crescent shaped bruise the size of a quarter. Never had that before anywhere. (red flag)
8/30 - Weird square shaped bruise on my back, but may have been from sleeping on something in the bed.
8/31 - Herpes cleared up, usual scab scars remain.
9/3 - Had unprotected intercourse with wife
9/6 - Wife getting severe sore throat, cold symptoms, similar to what I had on 8/13. (yellow flag)
Also my weight has dropped from 189 to 180 since initial incident on 8/10 (perhaps because of guilt and worrying? Or something more sinister?)
Bruise finally starting to fade but still there.
So due to my adulterous debauchery with the details and timeline given, what are my chances that i may have contracted HIV? (Definitely / Probably / Questionable / Doubtful / No Way)
Am I having symptoms of seroconversion? Or some other ailment might have befallen me?
I will be testing again next week, and again in 6 weeks. But it sucks because you have to wait so long to get a conclusive reading. I sooo don't want to spread this to anyone if I have it.