HIV Risk :: Unprotected Oral (massage)
I lived in indonesia.. last week i was exposed to one kiss from the commercial massage lady to my head of penis. is it considered oral sex? however, two days later, i am shocked there is redness in my head of penis, went to my GP and dermatologists, they said is ok . dermatologists take sample and Gp said it is only because of maybe her nail. I was so scared because if it is because her nail , then it is possible at the time my penis is bleeding.How much is my risk from her one kiss to my penis while it is bleeding? Thank you so much for the answer. i feel like killing myself as i have no one to talk to
View 11 RepliesHIV Risk :: Unprotected Oral Sex With Unknow Female
6 weeks back had an unprotected oral sex with an unknown female for less than 5min,where I was the insertive partner. can I get HIV through this act. now I am suffering from a sore throat. Can u please help me with this,as I'm under too much of stress due to this act,as it was the biggest mistake of my life
View 7 RepliesMassage :: Receiving Oral Hiv Risk
I just had a massage with a girl that I don't know about her status, but she first a little of coconut oil in penis, just a little, then she put on a condom and sucked, while sucking, I felt a little of her teeth, after I finished I was so scared of contracting job via receiving oral, because maybe I have an untreated sti that I don't know off, does having untreated sti increases the hiv risk via receiving oral with no lesions or sore.
View 2 RepliesHIV Risk :: Unprotected Oral Sex With A CSW
I had unprotected oral sex with a CSW . what are my risks ?Do i need to test?
View 4 RepliesHIV Risk :: Unprotected Oral Sex Receiver
what are the chances to contract Hiv with unprotected Oral sex. I'm the male receiver of the oral.
View 2 RepliesHIV Risk :: Unprotected Oral Sex With A Sex Worker
I'm male in early 30's I have only one time unprotected oral sex with a sex worker few days ago , she kissed may penis , I ejaculated in her mouth. I did not know she have mouth ulcers or not or if she's HIV positive. After I wash my penis with water.Should i be worried or require any HIV / STD tests ? if yes then when ?
View 1 RepliesHIV Risk :: Unprotected Oral Sex With Prostitute
I am a 23 year old guy...Last night I hooked up with a prostitute...I used condom while intercourse and I did unprotected oral to her for 5 to 10 minutes..This is my first time sex experience ever..i am very much worried that i may contracted HIV...are there any possibilities for getting HIV?
View 1 RepliesHIV Risk :: Unprotected Oral - Lymph Nodes Swelling
I'm a 23 year old male who received unprotected oral about 6 times total on and off for about a year or less after the 5th time my groin lymph nodes swelled up for a couple of days then my penis turned a weird shape like swollen just before the head of my penis a couple months after I got what looked like acne between my inner thighs my hands started to inch on and off and sometimes my feet. The person I was with claims their clean and gets tested "regularly" and they are hiv negative and they said I shouldn't be worried but I have terrible anxiety and depression to begin with and get a lot of panic attacks during the day and worry about stuff randomly and so I'm constantly googling symptoms and it's freaking me the hell out please can anyone help me please!!! I posted this on the std community and they said it's a super low risk of catching anything at all and hiv through oral is no risk a specialist told I just need some reassurance
View 27 RepliesHIV Risk Assessment - Protected Sex With A Female CSW
28 days ago I had sex with a female CSW. I'm male. Oral then vaginal then oral again. Used one condom for first oral and the vaginal (which, by the way, was extremely short-lived). A second condom for second oral. Both condoms were on before and after and remained intact. No obvious tears, rips, breakages, etc. Most concerned about the vaginal sex. As I said, it was protected, but I can't stop thinking about "what ifs." Also as I said, the condom was on when I inserted and when I pulled out. I don't think it slipped (I'd have noticed, yes?). And, as I also said, it was intact after.
Oraquick in-home tests were negative at 21 and 24 days post-exposure (if you can call it an exposure). I plan on testing again this week (now that I'm four-weeks down the track).
I understand symptoms are not diagnostic, but I have had a few: white tongue (from about 2 weeks after it), maybe a rash on my face and small parts of my thigh but not sure (from about 3 weeks after it). No fever. No sore throat. Nothing else.
What do you think? Was this a no risk situation? How much weight can I put on these negative test results (even if it wasn't no risk)?
STDs Risk In Anal Massage
I went for a massage at a Mumbai based Massage parlour. She gave me a very non sexual massage except that every now and then kept massaging the outside of my anus as well. Its been two days and I have a swollen lymph node on my perineum and tenderness on both my lower buttocks. The masseuse was fully clothed and I didn't touch her genitals or the other way round except the anal massage as mentioned above. Please advise. Also its v painful and I find difficulty in sitting.
View 1 RepliesHIV Prevention :: Female Secretions Left On Analities (turtle Hair) - Risk?
I had sex with women, for three times, with the three condoms, morning saw congestion on the foreskin, have any bleeding is uncertain, may push too hard, Check the three condoms in the morning, installed in the water, the results did not leak, During sex and condoms should not fall off, on the foreskin had Swelling and may be had slight bleeding due to overexert, At this time the foreskin with Swelling and slight bleeding contact with Female secretions left on analities(turtle hair), In this case,will be infected with HIV? Whether need to check HIV?This discussion is related to Urethral discharge; negative PCRs.
View 5 RepliesHiv Risk Assessment :: Handjob At Asian Massage Parlor (cut On Hand?)
Got a handjob at asian massage parlor week ago. Concerned specifically about hiv as well as other stds.
My worries lie on possibility of masseuse having a cut on her hand, vaginal fluids or semen from a past customer coming into contact/crossing with my urethra as she performed the handjob. My confusion is that i read that urethra is one of the modes of transmission but when this question has been asked on dr. And hiv forums they say no risk, no need for testing and very low risk of stds. What is the difference between unprotected vaginal/anal and hanjob where the urethra is concerned or any small cuts, nicks, etc. On either participant? Thank you so much for you help in this matter as i eagerly await your expertise. Again specifically if fresh blood from a cut on hand made direct contact with the urethra (top of penis) is there a risk and why? Or why not?
HIV From Female Receiving Oral Sex?
2 nights ago a guy performed oral sex on me and i have been paranoid about HIV ever since. I keep thinking what if he had a bleeding sore or the fact that HIV is in saliva so i get scared. He also inserted a finger into my vagina and it had a deep hangnail on it but it was not bleeding or red or anything, it looked the same color as his skin. He performed oral for about a minute. Should i be concerned? I'm just depressed cuz i just got an HIV test a few weeks ago and it was negative and i just want to stay negative. Im kinda mad at myself for putting myself at risk of catching HIV again.
View 1 RepliesMale / Female Preference On Shave During Oral Sex?
For a man's Information , does women prefer men to shave prior to performing oral sex on them. In today's men's grooming style, show men having the unshaved look.
Does this present any issue for women during oral on the vagina?
Herpes :: Pinching Pain At Tip Of Penis (massage And Oral Sex)
About 9 weeks ago I went to a massage parlour and received oral sex.
Maybe about 1 minute without a condom. She then put the condom on and started. I showered and went home. 2 days later I woke up to painful pinching Feelings in my penis. The head of my penis looked bright red and kind of flakey. No visible sores. I had the usual std tests about a week later. All negative. The pinching lasted for about 5-6 weeks. I went for another round of std tests. All negative. My doctor gave me an anti fungal creams but it just seemed to irritate it..I ended up taking fluconazole antifungal pill. Maybe it helped? I've been going through extreme anxiety since this encounter.
I took the igg herpes blood test at 8 weeks. Negative. Going to my doctor tomorrow to see the numbers.
Herpes :: Risk Assessment - Multiple Unprotected Possible Exposures To HSV-2
I regrettably had multiple unprotected possible exposures to HSV-2 with a guy i was seeing at the time, i do not know his status at all and we are not in contact anymore. I have only ever dated 1 guy before him and that was a long term relationship. We were both each others firsts so we were positive we didn't have anything. After we broke up i ended up seeing this new guy. I would confider him promiscuous, he told me he's had 15-20 partners so far. He's 24 and I'm 21. The last time i saw him was at the end of November and I'm really worried that i might have gotten asymptomatic genital herpes from him. I have never had a cold sore and have not observed any signs/symptoms thus far. I never noticed any on him either when i was seeing him.
I also got tested for other STDS and everything was negative and conclusive. I thought i could move on but now I'm so nervous, i don't know what to do and i feel terrible for even having sex with someone in the first place so fast. What are my chances? I wanted to get tested but turns out they don't do type specific testing in Ontario.
Risk Of Herpes :: Erotic Body-to-body Massage
I know this question may have been asked before but I'm really stressed out and i need some reassurance. Yesterday I had an erotic massage that involved body to body. She applied some oil to her body and mine and sat in my lap with sine grinding for a minute or so. Her vagina touched my lower shaft and scrotum and it only lasted about a minute or so but there was no penetration. She was 35 and seemed healthy without any visible herpes symptoms. I know there is a risk of contracting herpes in this fashion but how high is this risk? I am terrified and not sure what to do.
View 3 RepliesSTDs Risk :: Body-to-body Massage?
Like many others here, I am in rather deep despair. Although I have a girlfriend, I went to a body-to-body massage parlour. The masseuse rubbed her body over my body, using also her vagina (along my legs, etc.). I fingered her, mostly on the outside, but also briefly on the inside. Although our genitals did not touch (except perhaps incidentally very very briefly), I am very concerned about STDs. What are the risks? How long should I wait before having sex with my girlfriend? There was no oral, no visible sores, often a few seconds of digital penetration, but she certainly touched my penis after having been in contact with my finger that was inside of her (not immediately).
I would be very grateful for any advice/words from experience with this sort of thing. Has anyone here received an STD in this way?
HIV Prevention :: Oral And Sex With Condom - Still Risk?
I met a csw at a Vegas hotel bar and took her to room. Asked her twice if she was clean and she said she gets tested regularly.
- she cleaned her genitals with wet towel and soap and asked me to do same.
- she asked me to put condom and performed oral for 5-10 minutes
- she asked me to get on top and have sex. At this point I was nervous: penetrated once for 5 seconds and again for 5-10 seconds and then stopped. Lost erection and asked her to leave
- after she left I jerked off with same condom, there was no leak and i put water to make sure and no leak
Question: she gave me condom from her car. So I am not sure for how long it was sitting in her car but it wasn't expired. It was latex lubricated condom. Is there any risk with using a condom that was in her car. It was sealed
I used same condom for oral and brief vaginal. Is there a risk?