HIV Prevention :: Fingering, Oral, Precum
I engaged in unprotected fingering and oral sex with a married man of 30+ years at the end of December 2014. He performed oral sex on me and I on him. He did not ejaculate. He did not even get fully erect. He fingered my vagina and anus. There was precum on his penis. I remember touching it with my finger. I do not know if it was on his fingers prior to him putting them in my vagina although it is possible. I do remember a slight pain which makes me think I may have slightly torn at the base of my vagina. This is really scary because of his precum. Prior to putting his finger in my anus, he left the room and went to the bathroom and put petroleum jelly on his finger. He then returned and fingered inside my anus. I don't know if he touched himself before doing so or if precum was on his finger; it may have been. He also rubbed his penis against my vagina. He never penetrated me with his penis and at no time did he ejaculate, again because he never got fully erect. He says he is not HIV+ as he has been tested at some point for life insurance purposes although I don't know how long ago. I also don't know if he is being truthful. I am married and had unprotected sex with my husband approximately 4-5 days later. My husband got sick about a week after that and was diagnosed with an upper respiratory infection. I have not gotten "sick" although about a week and a half ago, I got a headache, my face under my eyes hurt, it seems like the lymph nodes in my neck were swollen, and my ears started to hurt. I haven't had a fever and I haven't felt "bad." I have been SCARED sick! I can't sleep and think I have been infected with HIV and have infected my husband. Please assess my HIV risk if he is HIV+. I want so badly to move on from this, but I am so scared.
View 3 RepliesAm I Pregnant? :: A Precum Scare, What Are The Chances?
Six days ago my boyfriend and I were fooling around and I was very wet. He had not produced any precum, which is only slightly out of the ordinary for him as he usually produces about a drop or so (but that's it). Even if he had any on the head of his penis, he took his boxers off and they most certainly wiped anything that could be there off. He then stuck just the head of his penis in me and then reconsidered about a second later. He did not ejaculate anywhere near me. I had had my period in early February (which was early), had been traveling (where I am almost positive I ovulated) as well as being very sick, dehydrated, and extremely stressed both physically and emotionally when I returned. The sexual encounter was on March 8th, six days ago. My period should have come around that day. The last time I had a precum scare, I made it almost an entire month late by worrying. My cervix feels about midway up, hard, and slightly open. I have never been pregnant before. Please help me.
View 2 RepliesChances Of Pre-ejaculate / Precum Causing Pregnancy?
What are the chances of pre-ejaculate causing pregnancy? To be more specific; what are the CHANCES of wiping off precum and then fingering, getting a woman pregnant.
Sometimes, I get precum on my fingers when I'm aroused and then finger my girlfriend. I always wipe it off before I touch my girlfriend of course, usually on my bedsheets or a towel, and most of the time I urinate before hand, even all day before this happens.
Yes, I know precum CAN cause pregnancy. The answers I have gotten vary between "Next to impossible" to "Yeah most likely it will!".
STD :: Chances Of Getting HIV From Receiving Oral?
What are the chances of getting HIV from receiving oral?
View 1 RepliesSexually Transmitted Diseases :: Oral Sex - Receiving End - Chances Of STD
I had oral sex(Receiving partner-male) last week with unknown partner.I don't even cum into her mouth.Oral sex lasted only for a minute (I can say). Do I have any chances of getting STD or HIV/HPV ?? Do I have to take any medical tests ?? Please advice as I feel guilty and feeling disturbed.
View 1 RepliesBirth Control :: Chances Of Being Pregnant While Using Condom/oral Contraceptive
I am 19 years old and have been with my boyfriend for nearly three years now. I am also dealing with some MASSIVE anxiety issues and really cannot have a child right now. Because I know this, my boyfriend and I are always extremely careful to use a condom in addition to me taking my birth control pill every day at a consistent time.
When I was 16 and became sexually active, I started Loestrin 24/Fe. This pill worked extremely well for me. However it has been discontinued and my doctor put me on Microgestin 1/20 Fe. I was on Microgestin 1/20 Fe for one cycle, and she then put me on Gildess 1/20 Fe. I have been told by my pharmacist and doctors that Loestrin 24/Fe, Microgestin 1/20 Fe, and Gildess 1/20 Fe all have the same ingredients and hormones. So I was not expecting any problems.
When I started Gildess 1/20 Fe, I randomly got my period very early on in the cycle when I was not supposed to. This obviously concerned me. I talked to my doctor and continued taking the pills and got my period again when I was supposed to. I also took two pregnancy tests just to be sure (they came back negative obviously).
So I started my next pack of Gildess 1/20 Fe. This is only my second pack of Gildess 1/20 Fe and I am about a week in. On the last week of my FIRST pack of Gildess 1/20 Fe (the placebo pill week), my boyfriend and I had intercourse (this occurred about a week ago). However we ALWAYS use a condom without fail as a backup method in addition to me taking my birth control pills and from what I can tell, we use to the condom correctly to our very best ability. He typically puts the condom on himself but I also try to make sure he puts it on correctly, and that it has not broken, etc.
However, two nights ago I noticed my breasts felt sore and now I am completely freaking out. I have experienced breast soreness before but this is really scaring me because of the problems I experienced with my period on my first month of Gildess and because this is a new pill to me in general. I know that breast tenderness is sometimes an early pregnancy symptom. I grew so comfortable with Loesterin 24/Fe and now I feel so scared all the time that I may be pregnant.
I take my birth control as consistently as possible. It's one of the very first things I do when I wake up in the morning. Sometimes I worry though because I wake up later on the weekends than I do on the weekdays and I know it's also very important to take your pill at the same time everyday :/
I am honestly so scared all the time that I may be pregnant because I really cannot handle that right now. So I am wondering, if I take my birth control pills as consistently as I can and use a condom every time I have sex, what are my chances of getting pregnant? From what I can tell and research I have done I am being almost as safe as I possibly can without abstaining from sex altogether. But still, I have this constant nagging fear, especially since I am experiencing the breast tenderness. But I have also read that breast soreness is a side effect of some birth control pills, especially when you start a new one. Should I be scared? I just don't know if I have reason to be scared, or if it's my anxiety kicking in, or if I should possibly talk to my doctor about being put on a different birth control pill, or what
I am just so worried that maybe something went wrong with both the pill and the condom. Like what if my pill wasn't effective because I do not take it at the EXACT same time every single day (although I take it as close to the same time as I can and I try really really hard, it's just that sometimes my schedule varies because I wake up at different times for class, appointments, etc) and something happened to the condom, like it got snagged or we didn't check it properly or what not. Ugh I don't know, I'm just really really scared and I do not like it
HIV Prevention :: Precum In Mouth
I performed oral sex on a man the other day, I'm not sure of his status. He didn't ejaculate into my mouth but there may have been some Precum, I don't know. I have bad gums and they bleed at times.. I'm worried I could've been infected. Should I worry?
View 1 RepliesHIV Prevention :: Does Precum Transmit HIV
Some doctors say precum does not contain enough virus so it can not transmit HIV, some say it is only theoretically possible for precum to transmit HIV, what is the truth?
View 7 RepliesHIV Prevention :: Precum On Outside Of Condom
I had recently had sexual intercourse with a man of unknown status. I have become very concerned because he had mentioned that he has been with over 60 women and has never been checked; however, he said he never has sex without a condom so I am starting to have doubts. I have reason to believe he is telling the truth because he didn’t hesitate to grab a condom, but I cannot be sure that he uses condoms properly every time. I am almost certain the condom did not break. As he went to put on the condom he noticed that he was putting it on the wrong way and turned it over and continued to roll on the condom. At this point precum was present on the outside of the condom. About 10 seconds later we proceeded to have intercourse. We had penetrative sex for about 3 minutes until it stopped. There was no full ejaculation and as stated before, I am almost certain the condom did not break. I have recently read that precum can contain amounts of HIV and although it is said that HIV cannot live outside of the body, I read that it takes a few minutes for the virus to die. It was only about 10 seconds before the precum entered my body. I need to know if an act like this was potential risk of HIV. If someone could give me their input that would be great. Also, I will be getting tested I just would like to know if this was a risk or how much of a risk this was because different doctor sites are saying it could be a risk.
View 1 RepliesHIV Prevention :: He Had Precum And I Have Open Wound
So I recently just gave this guy a blowjob. We are both clean. But he had precum and I have a open wound. What's the chances of me getting HIV or AIDS? Help please I'm just very nervous and anxious.
View 1 RepliesHIV Prevention :: Precum On Open Wound
I had an encounter with someone I don't know his status.We engaged in kisses and masturbation. I am worried because I have a fresh open wound on me feet due to new shoes and the man touched my wound with his hand. His hand had his precum. Am I in danger?
View 2 RepliesHIV Prevention :: Precum Rubbed Into Anus
Just want to say how much of a big deal it is that Medhelp has people who help answers questions and put people in the right direction.
I have been worried for the past week about an incident that happened with me, I met a guy in a sauna ( im male too ) he had an uncircumcised penis . We got talking and went to the backroom to play. He had allot of precum on his penis . which he rubbed my anus with , I was in the moment very horny and so im my moment of madness opened my anus for him ( sorry for the detail ) though there was to my knowledge no penetration. There definitely was him pushing his precum into my anus , and pushing hard against my anus so as to "open me " up. It didn't happen .
Just want to know what my risks are , this is also due to the problem I have of piles and bleeding that occurs . Also he fingered me before hand and may have caused some irritation to that area where he put his precum.
Have I been at risk for infection and do i need to go get tested This discussion is related to Mucous membranes.
HIV Prevention :: Precum On Fresh Cut Of Nail Scratch
Yesterday I meet a guy...There was lots of precum on his penis...I was down with my face down side and he was on top of me..he did not inserted inside my ***. He was humping his dick between my testicals and thighs...there was lot of precum...after some time precum got dry..and it made me itching...I scratched it..this made small cuts and lil blood...again after 3 min my partner placed his penis at the same place with all precum touching the fresh cut...
1 ) Is there a risk of HIV as fresh precum touched fresh cut.
2) As this dry precum made me itching for 5 hr...are there any chances I have got STD
HIV Prevention :: Oral Sex And Cut On The Penis
I had two sexual partner last week end, with one i had safe anal sex and received unsafe oral sex with both, later in the same day i noticed erosion/cut on my penis, since then I am so anxious that i may be infected with HIV .I don't know if this erosion was before sex or after :(...As I know I should wait 3 months to get tested but i can not live normal life with this situation.
Is it possible that I became in infected due to the cut on my penis?even i i used condom in anal sex?
HIV Prevention :: Oral Sex With Ejaculation
i'm 31 years old bisexual. 4 days ago I had sexual contact with a married man. I did oral sex and he ejaculated on my mouth. Later I found out, I was bleeding inside and some cuts noted. I didn't spit out his semen instead I let it stay in my mouth and swallow. That contact lasted only less than 10 min and a little bit "aggressive", cuz I did deepthroating. Presently i'm having severe throat pain and some cold sores on my lips and throat. In this case, my chance of getting infected with hiv is very high considering that I bleed too much? When is the right time to get tested?
As I converse with that guy, hes telling me he is hiv positive with unknown viral load status, he has multiple partners before and even engage in sexual contact with men. Theres no anal sex happened.
HIV Prevention :: Receiving Oral Sex
Please i need your help .8 days ago i receive unprotected oral sex (ONLY) from sex worker in dubai im so afraid from hiv because sex workers in dubai are illegal.
View 6 RepliesHIV Prevention :: Oral Sex Without Ejaculation In Mouth
i'm 24 year married male..i gave oral ..to 35 year old men .he did not ejaculated..but i saw a pre cum on his pennis .. i'm worried if that fluid came in my mouth ..after 1or 2 min a split it out.. am i infected with hiv?? someone please help.. i m very very scared now.. what happen to my wife..i will never do it again .. but i'm afraid so much nowadays.
View 16 RepliesHIV Prevention :: Oral And Sex With Condom - Still Risk?
I met a csw at a Vegas hotel bar and took her to room. Asked her twice if she was clean and she said she gets tested regularly.
- she cleaned her genitals with wet towel and soap and asked me to do same.
- she asked me to put condom and performed oral for 5-10 minutes
- she asked me to get on top and have sex. At this point I was nervous: penetrated once for 5 seconds and again for 5-10 seconds and then stopped. Lost erection and asked her to leave
- after she left I jerked off with same condom, there was no leak and i put water to make sure and no leak
Question: she gave me condom from her car. So I am not sure for how long it was sitting in her car but it wasn't expired. It was latex lubricated condom. Is there any risk with using a condom that was in her car. It was sealed
I used same condom for oral and brief vaginal. Is there a risk?
HIV Prevention :: Oral Sex Receiving Zero Risk?
recently I received a bj from a guy I know...is that no risk for hiv also is oraquick hiv test a good test to detect hiv?
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