HIV Possibility :: Fluids On The Condom
last wednesday i have sex with a sex worker. we have unprotected oral sex and protected intercourse. im very regret i did that, is the worst thing i have ever done in my life. now the problem is, i'm so scare i will get std or even hiv. during the intercourse, it seems that my condom get loose after a while and i have touch my hand on the condom (there's fluid on it) and change a new condom. i'm not sure if i have touched my penis after removing it and before wearing a new one. if i have touched my penis before wearing a new one with the fluid. how high is the probability of getting std and hiv from fluid? the sex worker also give me a handj*b before changing a new one.
View 1 RepliesHIV Possibility :: Semen Flowing Out From Top Of The Condom
I had sex with protection 4 months ago and after ejaculation i found that some of my semens flowing out from top of the condom, i felt so worried and cleaned immediately with water. after 10 days from this i had high fever with itching skin and body pain and it lasts only for two to three days . and now after almost 3.5 months i am suffering with mild sore throat also i feel that i lost 4 kg of weight. apart from this i am ok no tiredness or fatigue ....
View 12 RepliesMultiple Sclerosis :: The Possibility Of MS
Hello everyone,
Back in March of this year I ended up heading to the emergency room for this strange numbness feeling that began in my hands and feet and then travelled throughout the rest of my body; it lasted about five or six days and then went away completely. I was in the hospital for four days and while I was there I had a CT, lumbar puncture, and an MRI of my brain, all of which were normal. I ended up with a diagnosis of 'post-viral acroparasthesia' and was told that I would be fine.
However, this numbness came back again a couple weeks later. I went back to the emergency room and they said that it wasn't that out of the ordinary for this happen again but gave me a referral to a neurologist who then ordered three more tests: 1) peripheral nerves, 2) evoked potentials, and 3) an MRI of my spine. I've done the peripheral nerve test and that was normal and I have to wait a bit to go to the other tests. I've also had my blood tested for pretty much everything and it's all been normal.
But throughout all the months that I've been waiting to follow-up with the neuro, the numbness as well as some other strange symptoms keep coming out of nowhere (seemingly) and going away. I get really bad tension headaches, lightheadedness, numbness and tingling, fatigue, frequently urinating (sometimes I wake up four times throughout the night), feel a massive brain fog, and more generally I just feel a great deal of malaise. I usually feel like this for four-five days in a row every couple of weeks and then feel completely fine.
These symptoms are pretty ambiguous but MS is something that I'm pretty worried about. My dad has it and is in the latter stages so the doctor's are considering it a possibility. I've seen quite a few doctors now and they haven't been able really figure this out. The most insightful thing that I have been told is that I could have some type of virus, which sometimes may last for a long period of time, and this might explain why I'm getting sick so frequently. I have just been told that I'm going to have to wait to see the neurologist and have anything neurological ruled out.
Whatever is wrong with me is very frustrating. I'm 22 years old working on my university degree and being sick so frequently has taken a huge tole on my academic performance. Also, financially I'm not doing so great and have been cycling through jobs...I mostly end up quitting or getting fired due to the fact that it's been very hard to work like this; it's really causing me a lot of stress.
Prior to all of this I have been quite healthy. I'm very athletic and go out of my way to eat healthy. I don't drink any alcohol, don't do any drugs, and quit smoking cigarettes back in January.
Anything to suggest? Whatever is happening to me is really messing up my life. I can't afford to be so sick all the time and I feel so desperate to know what's wrong.
Herpes :: Possibility With Cunnilingus And Fellatio
I am 23yo hetero male living in Jakarta, Indonesia. I had a single protected vaginal and unprotected oral (cunnilingus and fellatio) with a 19yo with unknown status and she decided to block me totally when I inquire about her STD status, so we have no contact absolutely by now.
Day 0- protected vaginal, unprotected oral, and I 'stayed' on top of her fully naked for quite a while after we bathe
Day 14- I noticed a small pimple like thing on my penis, just below the 'ring', it hurt when I masturbated with my hand, I popped it out and blood came out, and it fully healed and within 2 days i have to pain at all
Day 15- I have sudden pain occurring inside my penis, sometimes so sudden, I involuntary move my body, this also happens to my testicles-- sudden pain and dull pain. Both of it stayed nonstop till today
Day 25- Pain in testicles and penis has not stopped (I have no discharge or I might have missed it?)
Day 26- Went for an STD check for
-HSV 1 IGG
-HSV 1 IGM (i know hsv igm is unreliable, but still tested for it)
-HSV 2 IGG
-HSV 2 IGM (i know hsv igm is unreliable, but still tested for it)
-HIV
-Chlamydia IGG (i know that blood test for chlamydia is unreliable but it is the only test available in my country, I have to fly to Singapore for a urine test)
-Chlamydia IGM
-VDRL
-TPHA
- I also did a normal urine test and everything was normal
ALL test came negative except chlamydia IGM which shows borderline. ( I have never had chlamydia in my life before, and this is only my second sexual encounter in my life). Upon knowing that I had borderline test, I immediately took 1gr of azythromycin, waited for a week, no improvement. Tried 6x500gr azy for 6 days, still no improvement.
Day 40- Noticed a pimple like bump of the side of my scrotum, bordering the scrotum and pubic region, popped it out, blood came out and it completely healed and does not hurt at all, all within 2 days
Day 42- I still have the same pain I had in day 14 (sharp pain in penis and testicles, nonstop, throughout the day), Decided to conduct another same set of STD test and all came negative except for the chlamydia igm, which, again, showed borderline.
I am really extremely depressed right now, I can't work, I can't function properly. I am really afraid of HSV 2, which In probably have, the only thing quite assuring for me right now is that dr. Hunter once state that at 6 weeks HSV is detected at around 80-90%.
I am now in a believe that I am 'immune' to azithromycin and currently on day 1 of 7 of levofloxacin and hoping it would get better.
I have visited skin and genital dr and also a urologist, in between all 43 days and both gave vague comments and suggested I do another STD test
I am extremely anxious right now, what do you think is the best solution?
HIV Possibility :: Penis To Vagina Rubbing
I'm aware that penis to vagina rubbing doesn't cause a significant increase in contracting HIV. However, what if you get a herpes infection from penis to vagina rubbing. Will HIV come along for the ride then? Or is the risk still the same?
View 2 RepliesHIV :: Possibility For Cross-reaction To The ELISA Test?
I am a 23 year old homosexual male that has had 2 sexual partners in his life. I was with my first sexual partner for a period of about 6 months, and in that time I did have unprotected sex. However, even though I had never had sex before (which is why I had never been STD tested), my partner at the time did get tested before we were ever intimate and he came back negative for all STD's, including HIV. I have not been with that partner for over a year now.
About nine months ago, I started dating the partner that I am still with today. We have had sex, but have never been without using protection. Back in February of 2014 he and I went for a routine STD test and he came back negative while I came back positive for the ELISA test. My general physician ran a confirmatory test and that came back indeterminate. Then, she had me run a viral load, and they could not find any virus in my blood. So I went to see an Infectious Disease Specialist a few weeks later and she had me repeat testing. She told me that I shouldn't have had anything to worry about because my ELISA index value was so low (6) that she didn't know why my GP even told me that I was positive. Once again, when I retested, I tested positive for the ELISA antibody test, but indeterminate for the confirmation test and they still could not detect a viral load. They are having me wait until the three month mark to repeat another test to see if that gives me an answer.
But I am concerned. The last possible exposure that I had to HIV was with my first partner and that was over a year ago, and he routinely tested negative. My partner and I now have only ever practiced safe sex, and he routinely tests negative for HIV, too!
I don't quite understand what to think at this point. Is there a possibility for cross-reaction to the ELISA test? I am so ready to not be confused anymore!!
Human Papillomavirus :: Genital Wart And Possibility To Spread To Wife ?
I had an unprotected sex encounter with a CSW since the condom broke 8 weeks ago. I now see a red raised spot to the left of my penis on the genital area which I suspect to be a wart. I am worried but mostly I am worried if I had passed it to my wife since I had unprotected sex twice with her within a week of the exposure. My wife had not complained yet of symptoms and we are currently staying far from each other and will be like that at least for another year due to personal constraints.
Is there a timeframe when I could have turned contagious or I could have transmitted the virus to her already? How can I ascertain for sure that my wart is indeed a genital wart and not any other wart. Should I wait for my wife to notice symptoms as I heard that the virus is usually suppressed by immune system?
All my Sti tests are negative at 8 week mark.
HIV Infection - Even Though We Used A Condom?
Last year I had sex for the first time with a guy and even though we used a condom, there was much blood since I was a virgin so it got me worried that I might have got it through the exposed blood. We used the condom from the beginning and he didn't *** in the end.
I took the test today because I couldn't get it out of my head. Do you think there is a good chance the results will be positive for HIV?
Am I Pregnant? Had Sex Twice Without A Condom
Me and my boyfriend had sex twice without a condom and he ejaculated inside me twice and it was two days before I was suppose to ovulate but the very next day I had a bad pain beside my hip like a ovulating pain and when I say down I would feel like something was push up inside me I have no clue what it is can I be pregnant
View 10 RepliesHIV :: Can I Have Risk With Condom
I had oral & vaginal sex with sex worker both with condom.
After 4 weeks I started with armpit pain with lump for two days exactly on top of my right nipple. I was continued having cough for some time, after 6 weeks I had bad sore throat with pain in neck, I have checked many times but I can't see or feel any swollen lymph nodes, after 7 weeks I started having pain in my groin on upper side but I can't find any lump nor any swelling. No fever for entire period but lost around 2kgs of weight.
I had a done tri-dot test now on 63rd day of my last exposure which came negative.
1.what are the chances at 90 days
2. how can I have risk with condom
3. Currently I'm still having the neck, armpit & public are & groin fleeting pain, the pubic area pain is bothering me lot. There's no visible swollen lymphs that I can see or feel, what could be the reason..
4. I also have fleeting pain in my stomach.
I'm worried that I had sex with my wife & she had flu like symptoms after 3 weeks, severe fatigue.
Can't Stay Hard When I Put A Condom On
As the subject says, I seem to have lost the ability to stay hard when I put on a condom. I can perform perfectly when I'm not wearing one but my wife and I really don't want anymore children!! As soon as I put one on, I loose a good 85% of sensation and lose my "mojo".
I have never liked condoms per se but they were always a necessity - I like to stay healthy!! As a younger man the fact they reduce sensation was a good thing to me, I could last longer etc.
This is frustrating the hell out of me (and my wife even more) as how can I be fine without but loose my steam as soon as I put one on?
I am healthy in general for an overweight dude. The only medicine I take is 100mg of sertraline per day.
I am still attracted to my wife so its not that things have gone off the boil.
I've tried various thicknesses and sizes (I'm above average in girth but nothing massive) but nothing works.
My wife suffers from hemiplegia so can't take the pill and I am ashamed to admit that I got scared at the prospect of a vasectomy and bottled out.
HIV Prevention :: What If Condom Had Tear - Sex With CSW
Drunk - was propositioned outside bar downtown on way home. Lady offered me oral sex for $. I stupidly agreed. We had condom on - it was her condom, she put it on me.
After 30 seconds or so, I stupidly slid my condom covered penis into her vagina. About 10 seconds later I came to my senses, pulled out with condom. She took condom off me and I left.
Paranoid about:
1. What if condom had tear (I didn't see it at end to verify).
2. B/C lady was a professional, and working by a bar, I assume her risk of HIV is higher (Canada is location).
3. I am married. I worry about having sex with wife until I can be confident I won't give her anything.
For context - have been married for about a dozen yrs, and have never been unfaithful - never kissed, oral, vaginal, anal with any other person. I was very intoxicated resulting in my atypical behavior.This is my first risk experience.
Please let me know your thoughts. Should I get tested for HIV, STI?
HIV Prevention :: Air In The Tip Of Condom Can Break It?
i am 23 years old heterosexual guy. i first time had sex (vaginal) with worker woman about 4 and half months ago. i made huge mistake. in condom tip was air during the intercourse. sex duration was approximately 10 minutes. i did not ejaculate. when we finished, air in the condom was still there. i am suspicious about that could condom tip tear and air go through there, that i couldn't notice? condom was intact as i saw. i didn't see wide open and holes. should i need to get hiv test?
View 4 RepliesHIV Prevention :: Precum On Outside Of Condom
I had recently had sexual intercourse with a man of unknown status. I have become very concerned because he had mentioned that he has been with over 60 women and has never been checked; however, he said he never has sex without a condom so I am starting to have doubts. I have reason to believe he is telling the truth because he didn’t hesitate to grab a condom, but I cannot be sure that he uses condoms properly every time. I am almost certain the condom did not break. As he went to put on the condom he noticed that he was putting it on the wrong way and turned it over and continued to roll on the condom. At this point precum was present on the outside of the condom. About 10 seconds later we proceeded to have intercourse. We had penetrative sex for about 3 minutes until it stopped. There was no full ejaculation and as stated before, I am almost certain the condom did not break. I have recently read that precum can contain amounts of HIV and although it is said that HIV cannot live outside of the body, I read that it takes a few minutes for the virus to die. It was only about 10 seconds before the precum entered my body. I need to know if an act like this was potential risk of HIV. If someone could give me their input that would be great. Also, I will be getting tested I just would like to know if this was a risk or how much of a risk this was because different doctor sites are saying it could be a risk.
View 1 RepliesHIV Prevention :: Condom Break With English CSW
3 weeks ago I paid for an encounter with an English female escort. We had vaginal sex for 5 minutes, changed position for the final few minutes (condom still intact at this point) when i realised the condom had broke! Didn't have any further sex after this.
This completely freaked me out and have since taken 3 HIV 1&2 tests after 7, 14 and 20 days. They have all come up negative so far and i know this is too soon after exposure but was done to slightly lower my anxiety.
HIV Prevention :: Oral And Sex With Condom - Still Risk?
I met a csw at a Vegas hotel bar and took her to room. Asked her twice if she was clean and she said she gets tested regularly.
- she cleaned her genitals with wet towel and soap and asked me to do same.
- she asked me to put condom and performed oral for 5-10 minutes
- she asked me to get on top and have sex. At this point I was nervous: penetrated once for 5 seconds and again for 5-10 seconds and then stopped. Lost erection and asked her to leave
- after she left I jerked off with same condom, there was no leak and i put water to make sure and no leak
Question: she gave me condom from her car. So I am not sure for how long it was sitting in her car but it wasn't expired. It was latex lubricated condom. Is there any risk with using a condom that was in her car. It was sealed
I used same condom for oral and brief vaginal. Is there a risk?
HIV Prevention :: The Condom Broke On The Side
I'm kinda scared. On January 10th I was having sex, I'm a Girl and with a guy. The condom broke, but on the side and he pulled out before he ejaculated. He says he gets tested every 6 months and the last time it was negative but I am still Going to go either Monday or Tuesday to get tested.
Here's the Reason why I'm a little afraid. I had a stiff for a day or two and then it went away, and like my body has been feeling weak, and now I have this painful tiny bump on my underarm and I'm scared cuz I feel like it's symptoms.
Pregnant? ( Dry Precum ) :: Jacked Off Without Condom And Then Sex
I jacked my boyfriend off and later that day we had sex without a condom. Could there be any dry cum on his dick that could of gotten me pregnant?
View 1 RepliesHIV Prevention :: Reused Loose Condom
I have sex with csw, I reuse condom, if i have sex with very loose condom, the condom loose because i reuse it, are the very loose condom still effective to protect me from hiv virus?and also i have possibility have sex with inside out condom many times,because i look many times csw have really hard time to install the condom to my penis,i have hiv risk?
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